I think way too much.
If my blog posts aren't evident enough of that then, CONFESSION: I think too much.
Sometimes I wonder if I don't think any more than the next person. That we're all just a bunch of thinkers but don't voice it. I know that we always seem to have some streaming thought going on in our...
Growing up I followed the crowd, I followed the rules, I wanted to be
Just
LikeEveryone
Else.
Why? Because the majority of the population, in my opinion, liked and was most comfortable with those who were followers of the norm, or were rule keepers...
And I just wanted to be liked. I didn't know how else to be...
I love the attention to details my readers and viewers have! In my video where I talk about how I dyed my hair I made mention that I did it on a special day. Well, my sweet friend Tammy noted, "But, you didn't tell us what you were celebrating!"
Well Tammy, this one is for you!
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I have been so far out of the dating loop I am not even going to attempt to admit that I am an expert in it.
But I do feel like I know how one should be treated in a relationship. I have seen time and again relationships that have been on the rocks either lead to a stronger bond, or having both parties go their separate ways.
I am one who likes to look at situations/friendships/relationships, anything that involves two people, from the perspective of both of those people. I observe what makes two people work together like clockwork, or push against each other like grinding gears.
But most importantly, I have learned that between each story where a relationship has failed, there is a fine line called "The Truth".
So when my friend wrote me, a friend I've known for a while, a friend that has confided a lot in me about his dating woes, his insecurities in finding and keeping a relationship, and how it looks like his latest "girlfriend" is following suit in this history of his, I could no longer bite my tongue.
I did something and told no one about it.
Other than ONE trusted friend, my family that lives with me as they know my every move. And my neighbor, who happened to catch me in the act. But no one else knew.
And now that's it been a while, I decided to share it with you. To come clean, to confess what I've...